DECIDE — Relationship decisions

What does
your gut know?

Some relationship decisions feel impossible to weigh clearly. DECIDE does not tell you what to do. It gives you a structured score against the factors that matter most to you, and shows you where your gut and your values agree, or do not.

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Values-based scoring
No advice
Private — nothing stored
Full Report $19
When feeling is not enough

Relationship decisions are hard to think through because they are the decisions we most want to feel our way through. But feeling alone does not always tell you whether a choice fits your values, your long-term direction, or your non-negotiables.

DECIDE does not replace feeling. It adds structure. It asks you what you care about, how much, and how each option measures up. The result is not a verdict. It is a clearer view of what you already know.

When to use it
Commitment
You are weighing whether to commit, or commit more deeply, to a relationship.
Ending something
You are considering leaving and want to think it through honestly.
Boundaries
A relationship requires you to decide what you are and are not willing to carry.
Two people, one direction
You are choosing between two relationships or between staying and moving on.
See what
your values say

The Quick Check is free. Takes about 10 minutes.

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